Showing posts with label Heather. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Heather. Show all posts

Monday, January 20, 2025

Keep going...

20 January 2025: What else to do on a day like today but...keep going? Keep doing what you need to do, loving and supporting those you love, and praying and working to make things better.

In a more granual sense, for me, that mostly meant staying close to home (snow and ice played a role in that), working the book, and spending nearly two hours on a video chat with Jane, Allison, Heather, and Beth. All of that helped to push back against the darkness. 

Day one of a new, dark reality, but we keep going. 

Update, 7:41 p.m.: Just feels worth recording this because emotions and grief and today are so weird: just now, "crop duster" was an answer on Jeopardy! and I giggled and thought, 'I should tell Ryan that,'" like I could just call him up or he was in the other room. Just a second, if that. And then the "oh, wait..."

Sunday, April 21, 2024

25th Reunion

20 April 2024: 

[Catch-up post]

Nearly twenty-five years since I graduated from Roanoke and getting close to twenty-nince years since I met this group of women (and Mike!) who have been such blessings in my life. 

Sunday, July 2, 2023

Allison and Mike

1 July 2023:

[Catch-up post]

Filled with so many emotions and so much love for Allison and Mike.


Reunited for the wedding weekend...

30 June 2023: 

[Catch-up post]

Sunday, July 25, 2021

Norfolk Reunion, Last Day

25 July 2021: Seven years ago, I was with some of these dear friends the day I learned about Ryan's death. In the aftermath of that, this friend group really helped sustain me, as they have through every challenge. We've sustained, supported, and taken care of each other, including when we lost Shannon. It was a kind of special synergy to be with them again this morning before we headed home.



Norfolk Reunion, Day Two

24 July 2021: 

[Catch up post.]

Day Two was pretty perfect, too.




Norfolk Reunion, Day One

23 July 2021: 

[Catch up post.]

So happy to have reunited with these friends. Bliss.



Sunday, March 14, 2021

Video-chatting, almost one year in...

13 March 2021: 

[Catch-up post...]

Late on my daily post for the first time is a long time, but I am going to use it as an excuse to go meta and talk about another anniversary. You see, last night's weekly video chat with my college friends went extra-long and was extra-awesome. Mike joined us again (two weeks in a row), which made it even better. As we talked, we realized next week would be the one-year anniversary of our first video chat. It is not an overstatement to say this: I am not sure what I would have done without these friends and these weekly chats. What a gift.

Tuesday, April 21, 2020

Quarantine Care-package...

21 April 2020: Care packages from good friends (in this case, Heather) look very different these days, but these contents make me very happy.


Saturday, April 11, 2020

My old crew...

11 April 2020: Had my first "grocery store with a homemade mask on" experience today. I hated it. I felt anxious and rushed and just...sad. And it was even more of a bummer because a) I like going to the grocery store--like genuinely enjoy it and b) because I am doing my best to only go every 10-14 days, I was looking forward to this as almost an "outing." (These are weird times.)

So, I was bummed.

Came home, had video/phone conferences with some students, mowed the lawn, graded some papers. It was all okay. Good even.

But what really made my mood lift? Video-chatting with Beth, Jane, Allison, and Heather. What a blessing they are through all of this.

Thursday, October 4, 2018

"The Shannon Niehaus Lobe Fan Club"

4 October 2018: It's been just over a year since Shannon died. It is still hard to believe. But a final gift she gave my Roanoke friends and I was making us all closer, putting us back in daily conversation with each other. Back when she first got sick, the rest of us started this group text (actually on Messenger) and named it "The Shannon Niehaus Lobe Fan Club." That thread is still going strong and continues to be a place where we share updates and stories of our days, get support and advice from each other, and make each other laugh. Tonight is no exception. One of us texted that she needed some good vibes. The rest of us happily sent them her way. And now we are texting about silly stories from years past. The thing is, I didn't realize how much I needed this tonight until the messages started coming in.

What a blessing to have these women in my life 24 years (!) after we met.

Thursday, February 6, 2014

Phone date...

4 February 2014: (A couple of days late with this one!) Got to catch up with my dear friend Heather on Tuesday night. She's all the way in Arkansas and we don't see each other very often, but each time we talk, it's like no time has passed. At the same time, I find myself so impressed at the person she has become as the years have gone by. I mean, she was always terrific, but she seems to get better every year. Her family is dealing with some challenges, but she handles them with such grace and humor. How lucky I am to have her in my life!

Tuesday, February 5, 2008

Time wasters with weird pay-offs...

Actually, I found this link by doing a google image search* for my name.

Check out what it says under "Editorial Reviews." That's me, baby!

Yes, yes...I'll get back to work...

*That's a fun and often really weird thing to do. For instance, if you type my friend Shannon's first and last name into the google image search (in quotation marks), you get one picture--of our friend Heather's pregnant belly. Bizarre.

Thursday, October 18, 2007

We'll miss you, Joe

Joe Torre has turned down an offer to return to manage the Yankees next year. I am a bit surprised by this exact turn of events--I didn't figure he would be back, but I didn't think he'd get an offer from Steinbrenner and company at all.

I think the world of Joe Torre. He seems like an excellent guy with classic NY roots and a great work ethic. He made the Yankees the most dominant team in baseball over the twelve years he managed the team. He brought home all of those World Series titles and helped players like Derek Jeter and Mariano Rivera become Yankee icons.

But I also felt it was probably time for Torre to go. Let's face it--the team needs to shake things up. I am not saying their recent lack of play-off success is Torre's fault, but when things aren't working in an organization, you've got to make some changes. Besides, isn't it best for Torre to leave now, when most Yankee fans still love him like crazy?

Now, let's flash back to some happier times: that amazing World Series victory in 1996. I clearly remember watching the deciding game at my friend Robin's apartment. I know Amber was there, and I think Heather and Allison were, too. (Amber or Heather--does that sound right?) I also remember calling a certain fella I was hopelessly in love with for most of my college career under the guise of celebrating the win. (He would always tease me about my love for the Yankees.)

And there were so many memorable moments from the season and the game: Torre's brother recovering from a heart transplant, (another brother, Rocco, had died earlier in the year), his sister the nun getting her students to pray for the Yanks to win, Jim Leyritz with big hits in key spots (I always loved him and that distinctive bat twirl before he took a swing), Wade Boggs riding a horse around the stadium. Awesome stuff.



Another great Torre-era memory for me? A drive with my dad during the 1998 series. I was home in NY for Fall Break from Roanoke and we had gone over to Tara and Jeff's house (my sister and brother-in-law) to watch the early innings of Game One against the San Diego Padres. The Yankees were down 5-2 when we decided to head back to Rocky Point. As we drove down the dark stretch of Rocky Point/Yaphank Road and listening to the game on the radio, we didn't say much--we were both bummed out about the score.

Then Chuck Knoblauch came to the plate with two runners on and hit a three-run homer. Even today, clear as day, I remember my dad slowing the car down and giving me a high-five in celebration. Yes, it sounds like a cliche, but it really was a special moment for us. (It only got better when Tino Martinez, another one of my all-time favorites, hit a grand slam in that same inning.) Honestly, for me it was a magical moment. And that's what Torre's Yankees gave to so many fans for so many years--so many amazing moments.

For so many fans, Joe Torre was the heart of the Yankees during this recent great run (and I am including recent seasons: World Series wins or not--the Yankees are a dominant team). So, I'll miss him next season, even if it is time for him and the team to move on.

Here's a nice article SI.com has reposted about that 1996 series. Check out this one, too.

UPDATE: ESPN will rebroadcast four great Torre-era games, including two that I mentioned above. You can read about them here.