Back to trivia...

25 August 2026: First time back at trivia since August 4. 

The teams were so kind. Just like when my dad died, I was overwhelmed by their kindness. 

One team brought a big birthday cake for me on August 11, when I couldn't host because I was waiting to hear about my mom's passing. They asked the Rumsey Tavern to keep it in the freezer until the next week. And then the week after.  Today, it thawed wonderfully and was delicious.

They also sang "Happy Birthday" to me. I realized no one else had this year, which is silly, I guess, but also...noteworthy. My parents used to call every year with a "singing telegram," after all. 

I see these folks once a week (and some, just once a month), but they make me feel loved and appreciated. It's such a gift. 

First day...

24 August 2026: A very busy first day was probably what I needed today--and it's what I got. Students seem great (as always). Good to see the halls (and campus) full of life.

So much still seems off...but today I am grateful, grateful, grateful. 

80

23 August 2026: My dad would have turned 80 today. 

Just hard to believe how much has changed since his last birthday. 

Tiny Meritus Park...

22 August 2026: Had a really nice time at the Boxcars game with a group from Flagship Trivia. And this giveaway--a Lego(ish) kit to build your own stadium--is one of the coolest I've ever gotten.

Welcome Back Lunch

21 August 2026:

[Catch-up post...]

Friday was a long day, but falling back into the rhythms and seeing folks again felt pretty good at times. 

A definite highlight? Spending time with Hannah, even if most of it was on the very long line to get dirty sodas.

New old table

20 August 2026: 

[Catch-up post...]

Since he wanted to get the boat from the Martinsburg house, Colin also brought down my parents' dining room table for me on Thursday. Very strange and surreal to have it here, but it looks good. 

Bonus, of course, was getting to spend some time with Little Man.

All ready...

19 August 2026: Copied all the syllabi. Prepped for all of Monday's classes. So I am, basically, all ready for Monday.

Honestly, the summer felt like it was so long, but didn't feel a bit like a break. Not sure how well this bodes for the new semester, but a "normal" schedule should be a good thing.

The beach this morning...

18 August 2026: Up early for a long walk before a long day. Marveled at how different the beach can look every time I am down there.

Grateful for a lovely funeral service, for the friends and family who showed up to honor my mom, and to be back in WV tonight.

Where else?

17 August 2026: Where else was I going to visit on my walk this morning?

A couple of long and strange days kicking off today, but grateful for some time to be alone and think before the rest of the day unfolds.

Soaked through...

16 August 2026: Took a long walk before driving up to NY today. Probably should have had an umbrella with me. Mostly, though, it just sprinkled.

Then the skies really opened for the last block or so. 

Felt appropriate. 

And maybe a bit renewing?

Walked through the door soaked, but it was okay. 

(Symbolism aside, I had to change and shower anyway before hitting the road anyway.) 

These two...

15 August 2026: Where would I be without these two? They have been kind of perfect through all of this. And they are navigating having Annie join us with more patience than I could have imagined. 

That picture of BabyCat was taken about ten minutes after Annie chased her all the way down the upstairs hall and down the stairs. Her face show she's mostly recovered from the "WTF?" of it and is in "I hate this, but okay..." mode. 

Exploring...

14 August 2026: Cat paws on the TV. Cat paws behind the TV.

Annie's exploring range is expanding. 

Pushing on...

13 August 2026: A dull headache persisted all day today, having set up shop on Monday. But it's okay. Very busy day, which is also okay. Lots of kindness from friends, which is more than okay.

49

12 August 2026: 49 years ago, my mom brought me into this world. This morning, she slipped past its bounds and gained her heavenly home. 

I am so grateful for all that she gave me and grateful that she is at rest. 

"Softy and Tenderly"

11 August 2026: Praying for her heavenly homecoming and so many joyful reunions.